Marriage & Divorce. Wisdoms Heard. Wisdoms Gained. (Part Two)
This can be likened to a generator. Give it gas and you have lights, however when the gas is gone so are your lights. I chose in the end to find something real that I didn't have to keep filled with gas on a regular basis. Please let me also say that most relationships typically don't relate to my personal situation as most people tend to understand good common logic and sense and moreover will do anything to save their marriage. This was a missing component in my previous relationship regarding my past spouse.
The communication in my case or previous relationship could be considered a one sided deal at best in which my past spouse at the time refused to see the reality and or repercussions of her actions not to mention the other persons point of view pertaining to most issues inside and outside of the marriage.
Spells generally are geared in asking Divinity for a second or third chance in a given relationship by resolving the differences and bringing people back together to which they often times do; however there are cases where spell castings will only prolong the agony especially if one out of the two can't rationalize general reality.
Performing spells in this instance would be inappropriate in my opinion and would not serve anyone. In other words it's not going to do any good to cast a love or marriage spell if the major problems aren't addressed by both the persons involved. It would be a act of futility if the couple weren't educated or willing to deal with a certain set of issues in a positive or constructive way. The couple must learn to move under their own power without the aid of magical intervention down the road at some point in time and this is why education is important.
It's not about casting a spell to save a relationship - more so then it is about a couple equally developing a strong relationship to each other on a mutual level that is filled with love, respect, trust, and communication. It's not so much about getting a quick fix to make everything all better in ones life more so then it's about both people earnestly developing a working relationship with Divinity to keep their mental and spiritual fortitude strong against the negative influences of the world.
I had this in my previous relationship early on however one became complacent and the other moved on as a result. Divinity is The Living Force Of Creation. The Source of all things. One can not play with or fool the Divine Presence least they automatically invite doom on themselves. When the Divine Force gives us the gift of love in this lifetime then it's up to us to cherish and polish this gift daily least it become tarnished and soiled.
Divinity has a good deal to do with not only our relationships but over all lives as well and thus when this Master Of Creation deems that something is detrimental to either the one or the many then of course it decrees that the harmful thing should be done away with or destroyed entirely after so many warnings. Divinity will also determine the outcome of spell work no matter the form it takes. They are the Deciding Factor of what is right and correct and that which is wicked and against its laws of creation.
It's been my magical experience that Divinity has no problem bringing people back together however they do have a problem when we don't listen or adhere to their laws of positive and constructive life after receiving their gifts of love, health, and finance. They have no problem taking back what was given when the deal is broken between them and the unfortunate few.
Divorce seemingly or oddly enough is a wide spread epidemic these days stretching across every culture and timeline in the world that absolutely no one is exempt from regarding this plague of the heart and despair of the spirit . It doesn't matter how evil or righteous a person might be as this beast has a insatiable appetite for destruction and thus spreading from the sinful to the pure of spirit without shame or remorse.
I would be hard pressed to meet or yield the names of anyone who has been successful in escaping its long reaching and devastating effects. Anywhere catholicism or christianity exists in a given culture therein can one find divorce moving forward at an alarming pace over the land. Divorce is ever present in other countries but at a greatly diminished rate from what I understand. It must be something in the water here in the U.S. lol. I would speculate that we have moved further away from our spiritual paths and Divinity verses the other nations in question and this is what in my opinion has brought this persistent monster to our doorsteps.
Divorce is about the most negative and despicable occurrences that one could ever have in my opinion. It causes one to lose everything that have spent a lifetime to acquire not to mention wasting all the years that a particular person could have been happy with someone else more suited to them. Divorce is just something out right destructive and wasteful in every sense of the word. This event causes people to stea l that which is not theirs to take. People become greedy.
It turns good people into liars and gold diggers. Divorce brings out into the light the hidden evil that seethes in the human spirit. Nothing can be gained from divorce but unending loss and total anarchy if performed for the wrong reasons. In the case of my divorce and through spell castings, I greatly diminished for myself a lot of pain and confusion that most people feel as a result of this legal action. But there again, I try in all earnestly to live according to the laws of Divinity to which intern causes them to have mercy and grace upon me. That again makes them more receptive to my spells and or prayers verses those who hide behind Divinity in the day and practice evil works by night.
You've all heard me say on this page that Divorce is bad. bad, bad...... and there might be those of you out there that agree with me fully but have the daunting questions of: I was happily married at one time and did in fact build a life around this marriage. I don't want to undergo a divorce especially after what I've read on this page.
Answer: If you can avoid a divorce then do it at all costs; however if your being abused in any way, shape, or form, then get out of it at all costs. There's nothing worth dieing for and or nothing worth staying in a relationship for if your in complete and utter misery. Relationships are about being happy and growing with someone and not about being controlled and dominated by them. Relationships aren't about being physically or psychologically abused or mistreated in any way. If your with someone that does this to you then it's time to go especially if you have tried everything under the sun to save a relationship or marriage in the past.
It's better to cut your losses and undergo the pain and chaos now rather then later. In other words, it is better to salvage some part of your life now instead of wasting anymore of your precious life in a relationship that will never work out or only grow worse with the passage of time. Again, It's up to you to decide if your relationship is worth staying in or maintaining. It's your decision the to determine the quality of a marriage and or if your in it or leaving it for the right reasons.
Sure, there will be suffering without a doubt for all involved should one decide for divorce but there again one must ask themselves what will better for all concerned in the long run. If your just bored in your marriage and you may be thinking about ending it possibly for the wrong reasons then again think about what will be in the best interest of all concerned in the long run.
A marriage is a marriage of the Heart and Soul as long as Divinity dwells within the union and the couple grows and are happy with one another; however when the Divine connection. Growth and happiness is gone then the marriage becomes as a prison filled with pain and atrocities that bite you in the night. It becomes a living hellish death to all likened in pinning up mad dogs who despise each other in a really small cage.
If your in a loving marriage or relationship, then work very hard at keeping it a loving union as they are rare to find these days in our fast paced and high tech world. Always keep it real and defend it with your vigilance and never ending care. Never and I mean never take your partner or marriage for granted for you may one day be very unpleasantly surprised as was my previous once love.
Why make anymore bitter memories to carry with you throughout your life. I have moved on now and consider myself the luckiest man on earth because Divinity saw fit in saving me. In replacing my sorrowful grief with endless joy in finding Jan. Wisdoms heard and Wisdoms gained. It is my hope and most profound wish that all reading this finds that allusive happiness and contentment in your lives as I did.
Enchantress Janhett T. Windglows Blood Love And Lust Spells Business E-Mail Address: firstname.lastname@example.org www.bloodloveandlustspells.com
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